"All shapes and sizes is beautiful,"
bullshit
Don't tell me you've never put a bad connotation to someone who looked inadequate to you,
don't tell me you've never thought of someone highly simply because of their good looks.
There is a reason why people who meet the high demands of
what most people call beauty are put on front covers of magazines
and asked to endorse designer brands
and paid millions of dollars for a mere photo-shoot.
While there are people living in slums,
dying of hunger,
or talented people who aren't in the spotlight.
Our society is one big superficial, judgemental pile of crap.
The truth is,
size twos and defined lines on your abdomen and jawline
is the current definition of beauty and perfection,
it is what people have put up on billboards for others' and their own self-destruction,
(& though by no means do I advocate this)
it's what the market wants and look up to.
figured this would be easier,
and look nicer.
compilation of TOTWs:
i. The more you express,
the more you reveal
ii. Hurt or be hurt, right?
Right???
iii. It's easier to sleep at night knowing
you drove them away instead of the other way round
iv. Maybe I'll become the person everyone wants me to be
v. Let jealousy/envy/loss of ego fuel your motivations
vi. Is it us, or the fault in our stars?
vii. No one really signed up for this
viii. 先爱的是输家
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and look nicer.
compilation of TOTWs:
i. The more you express,
the more you reveal
ii. Hurt or be hurt, right?
Right???
iii. It's easier to sleep at night knowing
you drove them away instead of the other way round
iv. Maybe I'll become the person everyone wants me to be
v. Let jealousy/envy/loss of ego fuel your motivations
vi. Is it us, or the fault in our stars?
vii. No one really signed up for this
viii. 先爱的是输家
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freedom to love, freedom to look unglam while eating |
2nd vlog on the Pink Dot experience!! ❤
(contains bad dancing)
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Apathy
apa-friggin-thy
Something of abundance in our society.
Too little empathy, too little sympathy, too little responsibility.
Everyone has turned so cruel, selfish and judgemental.
Oh, only if we gave a shit about things that actually matter
instead of thinking the world revolves around ourselves.
(slightly guilty)
Apathy
could be a good thing.
Apathy means not caring about outcomes.
It means going forth and doing things without hesitation.
Instead of constantly worrying about the outcome,
we could enjoy the build up/process.
Don't worry about it turning out good or bad,
set little to no expectations,
and whatever the outcome may be,
it's alright.
Apathy
needs to be worked on!!!!!!!!!
Or at least it's what I'm working on.....
To be less self-conscious about everything I do.
I'm self-conscious about:
appearance
personality
actions
singing
my artworks
my letterings
*much, much more
my artworks
my letterings
*much, much more
hell, I'm even self-conscious about my writing, (bad English, non-intelligent words,,,,,)
I'm brooding over as to whether I should even post this
as I'm writing it.
You could not imagine the copious amounts of blog posts I've decided to
chuck away by clicking 'draft'
and song covers I've hit 'delete' on.
But I've decided that yes, my blog posts and song covers may definitely suck now,
hence more the reason I should make these mistakes,
and work on improving them!!!!!
Better put with the wise words of Anna Akana,
"a massive amount of quantity with a deliberate focus on improvement
leads to the knowledge and experience of how to make quality."
((back to what actually sparked this post))
I'm always torn between choosing whether to
care as much as I'd like to or simply
not giving a damn and also torn between
treating others the way I would like to be treated or
treating them the way they treat me.
Tbh, I've found the latter to be so much easier.
hey hey hey I'm not the only one who have thought this okay!!
I'm sure we have all thought about the same question, right?
"why should I care?"
Well, here's the plot twist.
Whenever you have thought that,
you actually do care.
And the truth is, we all do.
*clears throat*
I guess we all as humans, being emotional creatures,
we are built to care,
we can't really help but react in a certain emotional way.
e.g. when you see someone crying, it is your basic instinct to give attention and care for the person
Regarding caring for something,
I've been on both ends of the spectrum,
caring too much and too little.
And what I've learnt from specific experiences,
and am still learning,
is to bring it to a balance.
Put into perspective what is too much and too little to you.
hey hey hey I'm not the only one who have thought this okay!!
I'm sure we have all thought about the same question, right?
"why should I care?"
Well, here's the plot twist.
Whenever you have thought that,
you actually do care.
And the truth is, we all do.
*clears throat*
I guess we all as humans, being emotional creatures,
we are built to care,
we can't really help but react in a certain emotional way.
e.g. when you see someone crying, it is your basic instinct to give attention and care for the person
Regarding caring for something,
I've been on both ends of the spectrum,
caring too much and too little.
And what I've learnt from specific experiences,
and am still learning,
is to bring it to a balance.
Put into perspective what is too much and too little to you.
Too much would be probably be if you make yourworld revolve around it,
making it your sole meaning of life.
And you would not be able to function if something were to happen to it.
Too little would maybe be if you knew someone was in grave danger (bad example), but you chose not to do anything about it.
So yeah, gauge what is too little and too much and work from there.
Re-evaluate.
Prioritise.
Evaluate each aspect, measure its worth and put your
(whole-hearted, genuine) thoughts and care into it.
To the things that you have established aren't worth it,
some things include:
things that aren't meant to be yours
things nothing, incl. yourself can't change
the past
the weather
they're disposable,
Prioritise.
Evaluate each aspect, measure its worth and put your
(whole-hearted, genuine) thoughts and care into it.
To the things that you have established aren't worth it,
some things include:
things that aren't meant to be yours
things nothing, incl. yourself can't change
the past
the weather
they're disposable,
and disposable things belong in the trash.
;-)
most imptly, care for urself, damnit.
(but not in the self-centred way)
❤
;-)
most imptly, care for urself, damnit.
(but not in the self-centred way)
❤
Reading anything and or knowing something, learning something new about someone from words of mouth are like taking a little peek into a very small part of their lives.
You learn about a minimal amount of their daily lives, what they like/dislike,
their problems and what they want to do, etc.
When you thought you knew the person, then you hear someone say something different about them
and hear what they actually have to say.
You really get to know them.
This realisation has has struck me. And made me rather upset.
It is how little you're ever going to know about all the people you will get to know in your entire life
(be it a public figure, someone you've met, an acquaintance, even a friend, your bestfriend)
Knowing about some people's problems makes me want to help them and know more about them because maybe that's what they need at that time but instead, I'm reading, listening, doing nothing.
Sometimes, you wish you could get to know so much more people and know them, like really know them.
But why is it that I'm doing nothing? Could it be the fear of approaching someone unfamiliar to me? Assuming that it wouldn't work?
But then again, knowing everyone in this world is impossible.
So to all the people with problems (which is everyone):
Think about it, this universe is infinite. In the end, us as an individual, is as small as a piece of lint.
And our problems that seem oft so big, turn out to be a lot more minute than they seem.
You could think about it rationally too, couldn't you? Since we're so small, we could really just ignore whatever that's bothering us and just do whatever we desire.
The minute we're born, we start to die.
So how much more time do we really have left?
I don't want to make this cliche. But there had been so many problems that I've seen/read/heard about recently and wanted to talk about it.
:-)